Sometimes, when I think of the phrase “how men fuck a dildo”, it can be such a confusing thought! But hey, the beauty of life is that there’s something new to learn every day, right? Well today I wanted to share a few things I learned about how men fuck a dildo.
First, it may seem like a strange concept, but rest assured that it’s not as uncommon as you would think. On the contrary; lots of men out there find this quite pleasurable. Whether for personal satisfaction or to use with a partner for intimate play, a dildo can be a great tool for a man’s sexual repertoire.
Now, in terms of how, well, that part is pretty easy! All that’s needed is a bit of lube, the dildo of your choice and an open mind. Start by using your lube to coat the dildo and lube up yourself. Take your time in getting to know how the dildo feels and experiment with its shape and textures. You can move it in and out or slide up and down using your hands and hips, or whatever feels the most comfortable and enjoyable.
Now, it’s important to keep safety in mind when using a dildo. Make sure to use ones that have flared bases, as it allows for easier removal and decreases the chances of it getting stuck. Also, consider using condoms or gloves for extra protection.
What I’ve learned through talking to friends is that each person has their own preferred techniques. Some like to use the dildo from a sitting or standing position, while others will lay down on their back and use their hands.
I’m an advocate of experimentation. Every body is different, so why not experiment and find what really gets you going? Try different positions, different speeds and different angles. You never know; you might stumble onto something amazing!
For me personally, the most enjoyable sensation comes from using a thrusting motion. Gently pushing and pulling back and forth with my hips and hands allows me to discover wonderful new sensations and really savour the moment.
In addition, there are many exquisitely designed dildos out there now with features that can enhance pleasure even further. There are ones with different ridges, bumps, nubs, as well as vibrating ones and even ones that can be controlled with an app. Who knew science had such amazing inventions, eh?
Finally, don’t forget to have fun with it! While sex dolls should always be treated in a respectful and safe manner, it doesn’t mean that it can’t be playful and enjoyable at the same time. Let yourself relax, connect with your body and enjoy it – no matter if you’re alone or with a partner.
In addition to exploring different positions and experimenting with different textures and speeds, you can also consider experimenting with roles and scenarios. Why not get a little bit creative? Dress up, roleplay or take on different identities. Push your boundaries and try to explore new erogenous zones. Feeling shy? Start slowly and work your way up, testing different waters until you feel comfortable with what you’re doing.
You can also ask for advice. Talk to your friends, search online or even grab a few books and magazines about creative sex and sexual exploration – there are always a wealth of new sensations to discover!
Another great way to increase sexual pleasure while using a dildo is to focus on the pleasurable sensations. Pay attention to the different feelings and sensations you feel as you explore with the dildo. Focus on those feelings and enjoy the journey; you mustn’t rush this exploration!
Besides that, you can also use a blindfold or a mask to increase the sensation of pleasure – the idea being that parts of your body become more sensitive when they’re simply relying on touch and sound in order to determine what’s happening. The effect can be quite intense!
And finally, why not consider a bit of prostate stimulation too? For some, stimulation of this area and the surrounding area can lead to some serious good feelings! Make sure you use lots of lube, and inspect the area carefully before putting anything in. And, as always, if it doesn’t feel good, then simply stop and try something else.
The great thing about experimenting with a dildo is that the range of sensations and techniques is almost endless. So have fun with it – keep experimenting and exploring until you find the combination that works for you!